Proverbs 31:3

Old Testament Wisdom/Poetry ASV (1901)

What does Proverbs 31:3 say?

The American Standard Version records this verse as: “Give not thy strength unto women, Nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.” Read the surrounding verses and the named sources below before drawing broader conclusions.

The verse

Give not thy strength unto women, Nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.
Proverbs 31:3 — American Standard Version

Context — Proverbs 31

American Standard Version (1901) — public domain. Click any verse for its study page.
3Give not thy strength unto women, Nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.

What do historical commentaries say?

John Gill's Exposition
John Gill (1697–1771) · Exposition of the Old and New Testament · 18th-century historical commentary
“Give not thy strength unto women, etc.] Strength of body, which is weakened by an excessive use of veneryf918 with a multiplicity of women; see, (<200509>Proverbs 5:9); and strength of mind, reason, and wisdom, which is impaired by conversation with such persons; whereby time is consumed and lost, which should be spent in the improvement of knowledge: or “thy riches”, as the Septuagint and Arabic versions, thy substance, which harlots devour, and who bring a man to a piece of bread, as the prodigal was, (<200626>Proverbs 6:26 <421530>Luke 15:30); and even drain the coffers of kings and princes; nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings; do not give thy mind to take such courses, and pursue…”
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Jamieson, Fausset & Brown
Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown · Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible · 19th-century historical commentary
“Succinct but solemn warnings against vices to which kings are peculiarly tempted, as carnal pleasures and oppressive and unrighteous government are used to sustain sensual indulgence. strength--mental and bodily resources for health and comfort. thy ways--or course of life. to that . . . kings--literally, "to the destroying of kings," avoid destructive pleasures (compare Pro 5:9; Pro 7:22, Pro 7:27; Hos 4:11).”
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Barnes' Notes
Albert Barnes (1798–1870) · Notes on the Whole Bible · 19th-century historical commentary
“To that which destroyeth - The temptations of the harem were then, as now, the curse of all Eastern kingdoms. return to 'Top of Page'”
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Wesley's Explanatory Notes
John Wesley (1703–1791) · Explanatory Notes upon the New Testament and Old Testament notes · 18th-century historical commentary
“Strength - The vigour of thy mind and body. Ways - Thy conversation, repeated in other words. Proverbs 31:4”
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Treasury of Scriptural Knowledge
R. A. Torrey and contributors · The Treasury of Scripture Knowledge · Cross-reference reference work
“strength: Pro 5:9-11, Pro 7:26, Pro 7:27; Hos 4:11 to that: Deu 17:17; Neh 13:26 Proverbs 31:4”
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Keil & Delitzsch
C. F. Keil & F. Delitzsch · Commentary on the Old Testament · 19th-century historical commentary
“The first admonition is a warning against effeminating sensuality: Give not thy strength to women, Nor thy ways to them that destroy kings. The punctuation למחות sees in this form a syncopated inf. Hiph. = להמחות (vid., at Pro 24:17), according to which we are to translate: viasque tuas ad perdendos reges (ne dirige), by which, as Fleischer formulates the twofold possibility, it may either be said: direct not thy effort to this result, to destroy neighbouring kings - viz. by wars of invasion (properly, to wipe them away from the table of existence, as the Arabs say) - or: do not that by which kings are overthrown; i.e., with special reference to Lemuel, act not so that thou thyself must…”
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