Hebrews 12:6

“For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, etc..] All men are not the objects of God's love, only a special people, whom he has chosen in Christ; for whom he has given his Son, when they were sinners and enemies; whom he quickens and calls by his grace, justifies, pardons, and accepts in Christ; and whom he causes to love him; these he loves with an everlasting and unchangeable love, and in a free and sovereign way, without any regard to any motive or condition in them. Now these are chastened by him, and loved while they are chastened; their chastening is in love, as appears from the nature of God's love to them, which changes not; from the nature of chastening itself; which is that of a…”

“(Rev 3:19.) and--Greek, "yea and," "and moreover"; bringing out an additional circumstance. scourgeth--which draws forth "blood" (Heb 12:4). receiveth--accepts. Takes to Himself as a son "in whom He delighteth" (Pro 3:12).”

“For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth - This is also a quotation from Proverbs 3:0. It means that it is a universal rule that God sends trials on those whom he truly loves. It does not, of course, mean that he sends chastisement which is not deserved; or that he sends it “for the mere purpose” of inflicting pain. That cannot be. But it means that by his chastisements he shows that he has a paternal care for us. He does not treat us with neglect and unconcern, as a father often does his illegitimate child. The very fact that he corrects us shows that he has toward us a father’s feelings, and exercises toward us a paternal care. If he did not, he would let us go on without any attention, and…”

“For - All springs from love; therefore neither despise nor faint. Hebrews 12:7”

“whom: Deu 8:5; Psa 32:1-5, Psa 73:14, Psa 73:15, Psa 89:30-34, Psa 119:71, Psa 119:75; Pro 3:12, Pro 13:24; Isa 27:9; Jer 10:24; Jam 1:12, Jam 5:11; Rev 3:19 and scourgeth: Heb 12:7, Heb 12:8; Sa2 7:14 Hebrews 12:7”