Colossians 3:13

“Forbearing one another, etc.] Not only bearing one another's burdens, and with one another's weaknesses, but forbearing to render evil for evil, or railing for railing, or to seek revenge for affronts given, in whatsoever way, whether by words or deeds: and forgiving one another; all trespasses and offences, so far as committed against themselves, and praying to God to forgive them, as committed against him: if any man have a quarrel against any; let him be who he will, high or low, rich or poor, of whatsoever age, state, or condition, and let his quarrel or complaint be what it will, ever so great, or ever so just and well founded, yet let him put up with it, and forgive it: even as Christ…”

“Forbearing--as to present offenses. forgiving--as to past offenses. quarrel--rather as Greek, "cause of blame," "cause of complaint." Christ--who had so infinitely greater cause of complaint against us. The oldest manuscripts and Vulgate read "the Lord." English Version is supported by one very old manuscript and old versions. It seems to have crept in from Eph 4:32.”

“Forbearing one another - Notes, Ephesians 4:2. And forgiving one another - Notes, Matthew 6:12, Matthew 6:14. If any man have a quarrel against any - Margin, “or complaint.” The word used here - μομφή momphē - occurs nowhere else in the New Testament. It means, “fault found, blame, censure;” and here denotes occasion of complaint. The idea is, that if another one has given us just occasion of complaint, we are to forgive him; that is, we are: (1)To harbor no malice against him; (2)We are to be ready to do him good as if he had not given us occasion of complaint; (3)We are to be willing to declare that we forgive him when be asks it; and, (4)We are always afterward to treat him as kindly as…”

“Forbearing one another - If anything is now wrong. And forgiving one another - What is past. Colossians 3:14”

“Forbearing: Rom 15:1, Rom 15:2; Co2 6:6; Gal 6:2; Eph 4:2, Eph 4:32 forgiving: Mat 5:44, Mat 6:12, Mat 6:14, Mat 6:15, Mat 18:21-35; Mar 11:25; Luk 6:35-37, Luk 11:4, Luk 17:3, Luk 17:4; Luk 23:34; Jam 2:13 quarrel: or complaint, Mat 18:15-17; Co1 6:7, Co1 6:8 even: Luk 5:20-24, Luk 7:48-50; Co2 2:10; Eph 4:32, Eph 5:2; Pe1 2:21 Colossians 3:14”